I think that the only way we become toxic is from doing too much ‘people pleasing’ and not wanting to ‘hurt others’. Why give two shits (pardon my french) for essentially strangers that’ll throw you under the bus the second they look away?
When I become afraid of hurting others, and sacrifice my own feelings, hold back my opinions and voice, I inevitably become insincere and fake. Does that make me toxic? Yes, because I’m not aligned with my inner self and my being!
I read somewhere (and many times after), that “all problems and negative consequences stem from a lack of connectedness with your inner self.” Which essentially means: a lack of authenticity, self-respect, and self-love.
Which brings me to the fascinating idea that there are only two root emotions from which all other emotions stem🌱 from and that is from either: “LOVE”🥰 or “FEAR”😱. Any act that you do out of “fear” rather than “love” will find its way back to you or create some sort of negative vibrational schism in the Universe and vice versa.
I also love observing people and watching their “energy”; who has stronger + weaker energies and mentally create pictures in my head of who they truly are. Everyone is beautiful in their essence. And everyone is beautiful as they are.